Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Things that WOW me!

By request, I shall dig into my little brain and sort out the things that excite me!
There was a day when SHOPPING would have topped the list ! 
Alas, those days are gone! No fun when you can't spend! 
Besides, my arthritic knee forbids the walking it takes to find the bargains...smile!
I can count on one hand the times I have been to the mall in the last few months.
 
So what else rings my bell?
 
Hm-m-m-m . . . uh.....umm....let's seeee ...Family, (of course! )
 
 
1. My beautiful great-grandaughters!  I got lucky on that draw!!!!  Their hugs WOW me!!! 
 
2. Running a close 2nd are the 6 grown grandchildren...WOW! They give me goosebumps!
 
3. Our three married kids and their spouses....WOWIE! They make me proud . . .
 
4. A husband who has never mentioned divorce!  Double WOW!  59 years this October 1st.
 
5. Uh . . .oh yes!.....having a cleaning lady come every so often. WOW . . . m-m-m good!
 
That's it for Domestic WOWS!
 
Lifestyle  WOWS!
 
1. Teaching...... Speaking...WOW a thousand times!
 
2. Travelling to a meeting to do those things!  DITTO!
 
3. Standing with a young couple in love, pronouncing them husband and wife! WOW!
 
4. Getting a comment on my blog!  YES . . .!!!
 
5. Having three hours of uninterrupted time to write and meditate . . . Unspeakable Joy!!!
 
I imagine some of you will be disappointed that I didn't mention 'knowing Jesus'.
Well...FYI....that's a given!  Wow is too soft a word for such a reality.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Things That Annoy Me

Things That Annoy Me . . .
1. Slow drivers in the fast lane!
2. People who are always late!
3. Telemarketers who don't speak good English.
4. Folks who don't answer Emails!
5. Clerks who follow me around, even though I've said: "Just looking".
6. Having to queu for food . . . goes back to early childhood, standing by mothers knee, waiting in line for a food ration of Salt Cod in the great Depression of the 30's.

7. An unflushed toilet in a public washroom! {....yuk!}
8. Check-out cashiers who visit when I'm in a hurry.
9. Neighbours who party after 11 p.m.
10. 'Holier-than-thou' Functionals 'looking down' on broken Dysfunctionals.
Those who have never suffered abuse judging those who have and do!
I have to say that # 10 irritates me the most.
Seems Christians are the worst for this....uh..sorry about that...but it's true!

(This post written by Greta, but posted by Jordan due to computer issues)

Monday, August 04, 2008

The Dark Side of Suicide

 

 

Razors pain you; / Rivers are damp; /

Acids burn you;/  And drugs cause cramp.

Guns aren't lawful; / Nooses give; / Gas smells awful; /

You might as well live.

Dorothy Parker in: " Enough Rope" 1926

 

 " THE  MIND  IS  ONLY  AS   STRONG  AS  IT'S  WEAKEST  THINK "

Anonymous

 

"As you think....so you become."

 . . .  said  God.

 

Its kind'a scary to ponder the stubborn power of thought that exists in a 'made-up mind'. How subtly that power wields its influence on one's moral behaviour, character & earthly values; even to stifling spiritual sanctity.

 

Many humans suffer  from  pathological congestion in their thought life. Things their measly minds have managed to stash away as memories; secretly hoarding the good, bad and the ugly. 

 

To be fair, the mind is only acting on what it has been fed.  Things its been exposed to; what or who it has listened to.  Even what the eyes have carnally feasted upon.  We largely ignore memories of when we intentionally disobeyed the Spirit within us to talk, telling all; thus exposing the real truth behind our fears and phobias.  It's best described as 'guilt clothed in shame'. Horrible for the conscience. Detrimental to human happiness. 

Sadly, for some, it's suicidal.  

 

God was right when He said:  " As we think,  so are we."[Prov.23:7] 

Offences retained in our memories eventually become our judge and jury.   It's called self-condemnation. 

 

The good news is, there is a simple healing for this kind of mindset.

You must first talk to yourself: "Enough is enough....I confess my pain."

It's called Dumping! 

Clearing out the trash!

Letting go!

Forgiving!

God calls it . . . r e n e w i n g . . . as in  're-stocking the cupboard'.

Discard 'stale bread' baked by people and events in our  past/present life.

Take a moment to savor the life-giving nourishment of warm, fresh-baked Bread from God's Oven. . . the Bible.   

A slice of Fresh Word is energising in moments of dire hunger when you crave a wholesome belief system about yourself,  God, Jesus, and others in your life.  

Stop living under the Legal Law of Moses.  It was and is, old manna.

You'll eventually choke on it if you continue to live on it.

Jesus Christ is  called The Bread of Life. 

He says to you today:  "I love you. Try me, you'll like me. "

He is offering you grace and mercy;  a slice of Himself that will warm and fill the tummy of your cold, empty heart.

He promised happiness to His followers in Matthew 5:6.

 " Joyful, happy and spiritually prosperous are those who are hungry for right things, right living, for they shall be satisfied!"

 

If guilt consumes you;  if shame of things done or undone haunt you; 

If you feel empty and stressed, with no worth;  

Then please accept this tasty slice from God's loaf:

"There is no condemnation, ever, to those who are in Christ Jesus."

Jesus is The Way, The Truth and The Life.

Choose Him!  Choose Life!  Not death!

Think on things  of good report . . . things pure;  people who love you!

 

Suicide ? . . . uh, uh! 

 

 You will need His permission! 

 

While you're waiting for it, take hold of that for which Christ Jesus laid hold of you,  making you His own.  He paid with His own Life for all the wrong doings in your life.  You don't owe a thing......just give Him your life and do what He has destined for you to do and be.

Don't listen to the 'other  voices' . . . they belong to Satan, the 'chief liar' who has come to kill, steal and destroy you!

 

Dear reader, please know this . . . I offer you my ears . . .  with no judgment.

I will listen with compassion to your words!

I will also listen in my heart for Jesus to give us an answer for your life.

gretasheppard@shaw.ca

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Thinkable thoughts re: Your thinking of thoughts!

"Once you wake up thought in a man, you can never put it to sleep again"
Zora Neale Hurston, Moses, Man of the Mountain: 1939
 
"I come from nothing, but from where come the undying thoughts I bear?" 
Alice Meynell  . . . Poems 1893
 
"There is thought, and then there is thinking about thoughts,
and they don't feel the same."
Susan Kaysen . . .1993
 
Thinking . . . is a soundless dialogue; it is a weaving of patterns, it is a search for meaning.
There are no dangerous thoughts; thinking itself is dangerous.
To think and to be alive are the same.
Never be afraid to sit awhile and think.
To have ideas is to gather flowers.  To think is to weave them into garlands.
 
Lying in bed just before going to sleep is the worst time for organized  thinking: it is the best time for free thinking. . . when ideas drift like clouds in an undecided breeze, taking first this direction and then that.
 
Readers are plentiful: thinkers are rare.
We have a reading, a talking, and a writing public.  When shall we have a thinking?
Thinking beings have an urge to speak; speaking beings have an urge to think.
It is alright to say exactly what you think if you learn to think exactly.
Conversation is the legs on which thought walks; and writing, the wings on which it flies.
 
Absence of thought is indeed a powerful factor in human affairs; stastically speaking, the most powerful, not just in the conduct of many but in the conduct of all.
 
Thinking can sometimes get you nowhere. It may be a fine and noble aid in academic studies, but you cannot think your way out of emotional difficulties.....your mind will only shift from one foot to another!
 
We are always in search of the redeeming formula, the crystalizing thought. Anger and worry are the enemies of clear thought. Thought is never free.  It is bought in pain/loneliness.
 
Author Natalie Goldberg said in her book: "Writing Down the Bones" [1986] :
 
"First thoughts have tremendous energy.  It is the way the mind first flashes on something.  The internal censor usually squelches them, so we live in the realm of second and third thoughts, thoughts on thought, twice and three removed from the direct connection of the first fresh flash".
 
I, writer Greta Sheppard, promise you:" (Only) a hundredth part of the thoughts in my head have ever been or ever will be spoken or written - as long as I keep my senses, at least." [James Welsh Carlyle to Thomas Carlyle, (1858) in Letters and Memorials of Jane Welsh Carlyle].
 
My thoughts this morning are taken from New Beacon Books: "Quotations by Women...provocative, wise and memorable words published by Beacon Press - Boston
 
Have a good day . . . think good thoughts!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Saturday, June 14, 2008

One father . . .

"One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters."
--17th Century English Proverb

Dads, please know that you bring blessings and balance to the lives of your sons and your daughters.  Your children have a better chance at being happy, successful, and doing great things in life, when you are there for them.

Impressive data from social research confirms that the world is a better place because of your loving commitment to your family. They have proved that if you are there and involved in their daily living, your children are 50% more likely to get A's in high school and go on to college.

Not only that, but just having you around, being their friend, means your children are over 60% less likely to get into trouble or see the inside of a juvenile jail.

And your daughters? Well, if you are not around and involved, your daughters are twice as likely to become sexually involved at a young age. Predictably, they have a 70% higher chance of getting pregnant outside of marriage.

The list of positive things that you bring into your children's life is long.

It is clear... you make the difference!

Blessing your child's good qualities helps to weaken/eliminate their annoying habits and weaknesses.  A spoken blessing ( not necessarily prayer mode) by a father over his son or daughter sets the child up for success. The ceremony of a spoken blessing contributes to the building of strong character  while encouraging the child towards right choices.  They will have a sense of direction in their life that other children, who have not been blessed by their father, don't have.

It is never too late to start! 

Recently, many women who attended a seminar on this subject were weeping because they had never experienced a father's blessing spoken over them.  The pastor and one of his godly elders stepped forward, offering to stand in proxy for the absentee fathers.

Every woman in the building, including myself, stepped into the line-up.   It was powerful. I had always sensed there was a missing ingredient in my life. In a sweet way it was added to my life-mix that morning, when a proxy father spoke blessing over me, confirming deep losses from the past as well as affirming present purpose. 

Please don't let your son's and daughters go through life without the riches of God's blessing being spoken over them by you I  

Wisely and lovingly, speak into their lives today . . . while you can!

 

Friday, May 23, 2008

Getting God To Like me!

The 'stomach of my soul' had a rich breakfast this morning . . . soul food prepared by Rick Warren in the kitchen of his Daily Devotional.

Here, take a taste:

"If you go out on the street and ask people, "How do you convince God to like you?" most of them will probably say, "You've got to work real hard to get God's approval and you've got to be really, really good. You've got to keep a lot of rules and you probably have to follow a lot of regulations and do some rituals. 'You've got to be religious". "I'm none of those things", so " I'm never going to please God or get to know him." If that's what some people think the good news is, it's no wonder they don't get too excited about discussing it.

But here's the good news: you are able to enter into a relationship with God through an attitude of trust – trust in Jesus Christ – and not through a religion of rules, regulations, and rituals.

God says you get to know him just by trusting him. If you trust his Son with your life, you get forgiveness for your past, a purpose for living in your present, and a home in heaven in the future.

Is that good news? Do you think anybody you know would be interested in that?

The good news keeps sounding better and better because the bad news of the world keeps getting worse and worse.

" . . . preach(share)the Good News to everyone." Mark 16:15

I'm often asked, what exactly are we supposed to share? 

Many of us think, "The people I work with, my friends, they're not interested in the good news."

But, we're dead wrong! They may not be interested in religion, but they are interested in the good news. The problem is not that our friends and co-workers aren't interested; the problem is we've forgotten how good the good news really is.

What happens to most of us is that the longer you're a Christian the more you tend to take for granted how good the good news really is. Likewise, most people who do not know Jesus, don't understand how good the good news really is."

Greta's tho't: For me,the good news is, we are wrapped in our Father's arms of love.....regardless!

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Thursday, May 15, 2008

Intentions of The Heart

 A few blogs back we talked about John 23-24: The Big S and the little s.

"God is a Spirit and we must worship Him in spirit and in truth".

Rick Warren bares the same truth in a different way from a different text.


Pleasing God – Authentic Worship . . . by Rick Warren

The Lord looks at a person's thoughts and intentions. 1 Samuel 16:7 (NLT)

*** *** *** ***

When Jesus said, "Love God with all your heart and soul" (Luke 10:27) he meant that worship must be genuine and heartfelt. It is not just a matter of saying the right words; you must mean what you say. Heartless praise is not praise at all! It is an insult to God.

When we worship, God looks past our words to our hearts. The Bible says, "Don't judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn't make decisions the way you do! People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at a person's thoughts and intentions." (1 Samuel 16:7, NLT)

Since worship involves delighting in God, it engages your emotions. God gave you emotions so you could worship him with deep feeling, but those emotions must be genuine, not faked.

God hates hypocrisy. He doesn't want showmanship or pretense or phoniness in worship. He wants your honest, real love. We can worship God imperfectly, but we cannot worship him insincerely.

Of course, sincerity alone is not enough; you can be sincerely wrong. That's why both spirit and truth are required. Worship must be both accurate and authentic. God-pleasing worship is deeply emotional and deeply doctrinal. We use both our hearts and our heads.

Today many equate being emotionally moved by music as being moved by the Spirit, but these are not the same. Real worship happens when your spirit responds to God, not to some musical tone. In fact, some sentimental, introspective songs hinder worship because they take the spotlight off God and focus on our feelings. Your biggest distraction in worship is yourself – your interests and your worries over what others think about you.

Christians often differ on the most appropriate or authentic way to express praise to God, but these arguments are usually just personality and background differences. Many forms of praise are mentioned in the Bible, among them confessing, singing, shouting, standing in honor, kneeling, dancing, making a joyful noise, testifying, playing musical instruments, and raising hands.

The best style of worship is the one that most authentically represents your love for God, based on the background and personality God gave you.

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Friday, May 09, 2008

Yukon Photos


Marilyn Bergman, Me, Barbara Wightman


Me preaching in Whitehorse


This one speaks for itself... we are inside Alaska crossing into the Yukon.


Pastor's wife Nancy Turner and an Elder from a nearby Reserve.

We publicly honored 30 Elders (Godly Native grandmothers) last Saturday in Whitehorse, speaking a Blessing over each of them and placing a Purple velvet satin-lined scarf around their neck. It was an awesome event! Only God knows all that was accomplished in the younger women's lives that day as we honored the older generation. Pretty powerful stuff for this day and age. I am convinced that generations sitting together in peace bring a smile to God's heart. Whether it be in church or in the home.

Mother's Day is coming up! It is good when the younger generation goes the second mile to touch the life of the elders in the family.

May God Bless our Family Trees with rich fruits; the kind of richness that cannot be banked. Rather, they are birthed and bestowed.

(Written by Greta, but posted by her grandson Jordan)

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Dads,Sons and the Stuff in between.

 Yesterday I returned from the city of WhiteHorse up in the Yukon. The occasion for being there was to speak at a Weekend Event, where the major theme was centered on Generations.  I spoke on the Power of Blessing and the need for father's blessings on children.  At one point in the curriculum it was heartwarming to honor, not only with a gift, but in the placing of a Blessing on 28 elders from nearby Reservations.  After my message the local pastor and his elder volunteered to stand proxy for the father's of several of the participants who had never received a father's blessing. It was powerful!  I came home challenged to work at restoring generational breakdowns, assisting families to face their differences and speak healing to the family tree by blessing instead of cursing.
 
With all that, it seemed uncanny to find John Shore's,( my favorite writer and all of you know his name by now) daily Blog in my Inbox.  I share his words with you.  It is a truthful tale of truly human moments about to happen this month between a found, absentee-father and his young-now-mature, son. 
 

Suddenly Christian

My Dad, My Book, and the 2008 San Diego Book Awards

My book, "I'm OK–You're Not: The Message We're Sending Nonbelievers, and Why We Should Stop.", is one of three finalists for a 2008 San Diego Book Award, in the category of Spirituality. (My book "Penguins, Pain and the Whole Shebang" won that award in 2006.)

If, on the evening of Saturday, May 17, I attend the SDBA awards ceremony/ schmooze-fest, my 80-year-old father will be with me. To me, this is like saying I'll be accompanied by Popeye, or that on that night I'll sprout wings and fly to the affair. It's that unimaginable. As it happens, my father will be visting me that weekend. My father hasn't stayed overnight in any town I've lived in since I moved out of our family home when I was 16 years old, which was 34 years ago. From then until I was 45, I don't think I saw him five times. I grew from a teenager to a middle-aged man without him.

I became a Christian when I was thirty-eight. Then I wanted to be closer to him: Honor your father, and all like that. So I started writing to him. One day he wrote me back. Then I called him. Then I called him again. Then he invited my wife and me to come to his home for a week and visit with him and his wife, my stepmother. So we did. The following year, he invited us out again, and of course we went again. A lovely time, both times, was had by all.

In February of this year, my dad's wife of 40 years, my stepmother from way back when, succumbed to cancer, and passed away. (I wrote a little about that here.) Since that sadness, my father and I have grown considerably closer; I would say we have become good friends. My wife and I would like him to come live with or near us. It's for the purpose of exploring that possibility that he's coming out to stay with us the weekend of the San Diego Book Awards.

My dad — who is straight from the 1950's school of Responsible Living — thinks it's Beyond Bizzare that I'm a writer.  To him it's like I make a living making balloon animals, or … I don't know … stacking rocks. (Wait. Writing is a lot like those two things….) He doesn't understand how I can possibly make a living doing something so nebulous and … weird, basically.

And, of course, all I ever wanted my whole life was for the guy to take me seriously, to think I'm a Winner. Same as all sons want from their fathers.

I don't know if my father's going to be in the mood to go the San Diego Book Awards. I don't know if I will be. But we'll probably go. And if we do go, and I do win, I could see, once I'm back in my seat with him, having to take more time than I really should to stop smiling."

I urge you to go out and purchase at Chapters "I'm O.K. . . . you're not."  Read it right through regardless of first assumptions.....lots of present day, edgy truth to sharpen your spiritual teeth on so you can better obey the Greatest Commandment ever.  For myself, it became part of my own journey as a Light (Jesus' own words about us) meant to shine in the darkness, to change it, but not be consumed by it. 

 Blessings, John, and all you who took the time to peruse this post!

  Let us learn to love, love, love,  as Jesus did!   

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Human Body Facts . . . laugh yourself silly!!

Did you know this before . . .?
Your thumb is the same length of your nose?
 
You really need to know all this.. . the human body is a machine full of wonder.
 (Purple thoughts are mine!)
 
 
-Scientists say the higher your I.Q. the more you dream.
( wow! . . . I'm encouraged . . . thanks Lord!)
-The largest cell in the human body is the female egg and the smallest is the male  sperm. (That's why men don't have babies!..not enough room
 -You use 200 muscles to take one step.
(Really? Just tell me how many calories I burn)
-The average woman is 5 inches shorter than the average man.
(O.K. guys...that doesn't mean you have to look 'down' on us) 
-Your big toes have two bones each while the rest have three. (So . . .?)
-A pair of human feet contains 250,000 sweat glands.
(No wonder feet stink) 
-A full bladder is roughly the size of a soft ball.
(No comment)
-The acid in your stomach is strong enough to dissolve razor blades.
(Ask Snopes if that is true or false!)
-The human brain cell can hold 5 times as much information as the Encyclopedia Britannica. ( No wonder my head feels heavy!)
 -It takes the food seven seconds to get from your mouth to your stomach.
(How many miles an hour would that be?)
-The average human dream lasts 2-3 seconds.
(Yeah . . .and a nightmare is 'to be continued')
-Men without hair on their chests are more likely to get cirrhosis of the liver than men with hair. (Scary....does that put us ladies in jeopardy of the disease?)
-At the moment of conception, you had spent about half an hour as a single cell. 
(Wow . . . welcome to the party all you other cells!)
 -There is about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet. ( Sick . . .!)
-Your body gives off enough heat in 30 minutes to bring half a gallon of water to a boil. ( only at menopause! . . .)
-The enamel in your teeth is the hardest substance in your body.
(Uh-uh . . . it's my big toe-nail . . .! )
-Your teeth start growing 6 months before you are born.
 (H-m-m-m-m !)
-When you are looking at someone you love, your pupils dilate, and they do the same when you are looking at someone you hate.
 ( Vel . . . vut you 'tink 'bout dat?) 
 
Oh, one more thing . . .your thumb is the same length as your nose!!!
I know, I know  . . . I already told you that!  
..now remove your thumb from your nose!
 
I think it's time I went to bed!